Monday, October 5, 2009

The Saga Continues...

The fall formal saga continues. These are the things that happened this weekend:

1. Got asked to formal by Matt #2.
2. Told Matt #2 that I already had a date.
3. Texted TM.
4. Got non-committal response from TM.
5. Drunkenly told S (equally drunk) about the situation.
6. Was asked to formal by S.

So, instead of Matt #2, I'm now going with S (if he remembers asking). I'd say it's a very large step up; I actually like hanging out with S, and he's a really good dancer. On the other hand, Matt #2 asked if I wanted to go out to coffee with him instead, and I couldn't think of a way to say no. I'm going to preface the date with something along the lines of "I'm not looking for a relationship right now," "I just want to be friends," or "I'm actually a lesbian, and I thought you were a woman, but since you're not, let's just be friends."

I know I sound kind of bitchy about Matt #2, but I'd like to defend myself by saying that he hits on anything that moves and has booty called me in the past. And he's super-awkward. I'm also in a place right now where I don't want to be in a serious relationship. It's time-consuming and emotionally consuming. I don't want to put myself in the same place I was last year, when I began to lose sight of who I was in that relationship.

OTHER DRAMA
The time has come for the housing drama to begin. My housemate M has been looking for a place to live with her friends, and she started seriously considering an apartment called the Blue Lagoon. Our other housemate, C, after a conversation about housing with M, decided that she and my former roommate J were going go behind M's back and get a group together to live at the Blue Lagoon. They did this knowing full well that M and her friends were just getting a few last-minute details together before calling the landlord. I was absolutely speechless when I heard about this, because this is something that is ABSOLUTELY NOT OKAY TO DO TO A FRIEND. Especially a friend you're living with. Needless to say, things have been tense around the house lately.

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